The lad pishov, without explaining the reason. What work, how did the girl deprive her for no reason? Your dreams do not develop the way you plan
Tasiaya
My name is Tasya, 1 baby is guilty of having an apartment and no explanation for the reasons. They lived 16 years of them; at once experienced a trivala of oncology sickness and yogo death (there are no more children; they planned for 2017; less than 35 people 39. Taking speeches at a minimum; in the chest categorically did not speak more than dry short SMS; we can’t talk about everything on the right, but let’s talk about it. Basically, with roses, I pressed me, I wanted to find out the reason: what fate did it begin to bring better, come alive with me 1.5 days, when I got to know it, I didn’t reach the right, and I didn’t get better. sippin s kimos іz druzіv pіsla worki і pіshov renovate to rent an apartment. let me know that you need to go to the registry office to separate, but after all, it’s normal to talk.
Olesya Veryovkina
Tasiaya psychologist will comment on the topic in one hour.
Tasia, hello! The situation of insignificance is always painful. Especially if you are talking about something like that of a close person. I am talking to you.
You have experienced a grievous shock as a person, as if destroying the life of life and rethinking everything, thinking about the future. Such podії people endure in a different way. Somebody mobilizes, somebody loses heart, somebody peresbuvay in decay... It is worth lying down according to the type of specialty of a person and other minds.
Your man, ymovirno, having spent support in life, pishov from the situation, deyom all guess about the tragic fate and it will take him an hour to come to you. It’s not varto at such moments to show arrogance and vimagati vidpovidey - you can’t have it right. It is necessary to give him an hour in order to rethink those who have become alone with themselves, little by little come to you. You just need to be instructed - to say goodbye to life, to the right, to health. Shchob vіn not vtrativ vіdchuttya, scho you are the most important person.
Tasiaya
Irina Kornilova, I am most afraid that I will renew those blue ones, like bules in my chest, and forget me; I don’t understand why I’m so excited to talk about separation
Tasya, don’t be afraid that a person will make you look like a stounka. It’s not important, it’s not important - you can’t add a hundred dollars, but you can spend a lot of money with others, because you don’t need a lot of this. Aje right? Also, you don’t need to worry about other stoks for nothing - you need to work so hard that your stoks are of little value to a person. Those competitors will not be scary for you.
Often after tragic fates in this world, people cannot live in the old way, to the one who knows everything about going through grief and wants to go in, so that they don’t get sick of the day. It turns out that if you radically change the situation and sharpen it, you can start life from a clean slate. Ale, don’t be like that - the experiences of the soul are left behind the traces of the soul and are less close, as if they were instructed by the hardiness, they can understand and expand the experience in a right way. Tse rozuminnya to come with an hour.
In such situations, if a person throws himself and tries to make his body feel better through new attacks, the patience of that understanding of loved ones helps. The two values themselves are valued especially by friends. New hoarding is less likely to create a new positive decay, as if it allows people to succumb to the summation of their worries. Ale, as you have already changed, the novelty will pass and the person will turn to you, to the one who is "smarter, you are better."
Tasiaya
Irina Kornilova, good afternoon!! An hour passed from the exit of a man; for example, birch trees, turning to me, they talked, knowing that in the course of an hour there were stosunki with a colleague on the robot, but having understood that they wanted to be with me; live at once; but how to learn to trust youma? I don't be afraid that I can drink again I don't know
Tasya, you can’t learn what. Dovira is shaped by fate and less in practice.
Just be glad that the person who chose you - you turned out to be the best woman for the new one. So, try yourself, so that you don’t blow your wine in any way, so that you have made such a choice yourself. A man and a squad at once out of good will, to that guarantee of your long-term family happiness, it will be less for you to save your life with a man. To lay everything in view of you and your womanly wisdom, and in view of your bazhannya, save the interest of a person before you on your long-term fate. There are no guarantees of an eternal kokhanny, so that all life can be practiced over hundreds of dollars.
If you already started to live at once, then in the past just fill in the back. It won’t go anywhere else - what was booming, those booming. Ale and allow the past to cherub your current and future - it means to accumulate that anger one on one. Then go out, but there is no sense to start everything back. Aje right?
People learn lessons from the past and live far away, learning from their pardons.
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Olena, vic: 32 / 10.06.2012
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Dear Olenka, to torment yourself with food, why you blamed yourself like that, is one of the best things to do. So, unfortunately, there is a lot of history, if it’s so ugly to repair a person’s axle, I don’t explain anything. Ale yogo vchinok - tse already on yogo conscience, tse yogo vіdpovіdalnіst. And you need to be busy, moreover, terminovo. You don’t really get into yourself. Sport and the guests are good, but only for the obviousness of the internal work on themselves, otherwise go out, so you interrupt the beat at the same time, instead of that, to heal the wound. Here on the site there is a sea of necessary materials, as a guide to assist in research. Do not hesitate, for God's sake, do not hesitate, keep calm! Help you Lord!
Petlichka, vic: 28 / 10.06.2012
Olena, for the leaf of You I have been honored ...
And what is the reason for you?
More than anything, the entire internal crisis, as it is obvious in such a situation, a person does not feel happy in the coordinate system that she has done for herself, and sharply changes her. Remember the woman in the simplest way.
And there are no options for what you could say, and if you didn’t please you.
Maybe, start chatting and plan your life, maybe, move, see your relatives and old friends, think about the special life and children... so, tim more, that you are not so rich in fate.
Annushka, vic: 37 / 10.06.2012
Olenka, dear, judging by your description, you need to please, and don’t cry! Well, what is the behavior of a grown-up normal man - to steal the products of other people's speeches? That for such a thing in a child's vіtsі on popі b'yut і put in kut, and even in the older classes "dark" vlashtovuyut. That your colossal belongings is only a little undersized in the moral plan, and, perhaps, the wines are no longer grown. You don’t write, how your life went by, how you got to know why you got drunk in another country. Before the speech, do you live? I live in Italy, also alone in a foreign country, and out of satisfaction I shared the knowledge of living in such minds. Olenka, I will hug you dearly, and even though it didn’t sound marvelous, I know what happened. You were cremated in the presence of unimportant, important stosunkiv, like you fettered you with rich fates. At once, the time has come to dress up that formation of you as a specialty, to grow up and survive in difficult minds. Mene tezh leaving the young man, if I was behind the cordon and even needed a bula of yoga for help. Ale nothing, like a bachite, she lived, she took away the expensive dosvid. And at once I’m already grateful for everything that has become of me. Go to the church, pray for a big person, for yourself, for everything is good for you that you have had. Start a new stage of your life with a clear conscience, you have everything! God help!
Oleksandra, vic: 27 / 10.06.2012
Olena, it’s true, those who you write are greedy. Ale is more like self-deception. How did it not alert you that for 10 years your husband did not know the possibility of having children with you? Tsim mustache, in my opinion, it is said. You didn’t want to bachiti, which is not the same for you, as if a man had a dear woman. Finish this rebus, it’s more, why do you want to lie on the surface, You don’t want to pamper yourself - You had mercy only in one thing - you didn’t win for your man - tse buva, women often take pity on something quick, or something in unsettledness zhіnochoї prioblivostі. Now more important! 32 - Vіk, it's fashionable at the entrance (and it's becoming fashionable with us) to make people! As if for a big person, you didn’t waste your building, terminate your special life and have a good time for someone worthy, to whom it’s good luck to understand and need it, sinam! The most necessary for you! Believe me, it’s like you see, but I still believe in what I believe, your grief will be given to you as flat, dribnim that blіdo-prikrym.
Of, vіk: 48 / 10.06.2012
Dear Olenka! Calm down and look at the situation on the side, you are a third-party person. Tse has already become - settle down, accept it. Adzhe mi not shkoduєmo about our childishness, as it happened. And at the same time, it’s important to miss the past, fill the past with the past - it’s important. You write that the person after separation laughed, remember - LAUGH YOU, WHO STAY LAUGHING! Why don't you see "istotam"? And I’ll tell you something - they just didn’t live stink badly. The stench is walking in a good way, thinking that life is even better, but the Lord will take care of everything, and that everything will be arranged in its own place. And you rise from the column, so, importantly, Ale REQUIRED !!! Love yourself! If you have grown a close person, then now you yourself will work more painfully? Tell yourselves STOP, through whom do I worry, through a weak person? The one who is a right and loving person should never be allowed to suffer on his kohana! Take it into your hands, there are a lot of us on this site and everyone is slowly experiencing it. Everyone could, and you can, the one who needs it! Pray more, and the Lord will not deprive you! You can just really want to! Tremite!
Chereshka, vic: 36 / 10.06.2012
Lenochka, better for everything, lives with new emotions, I am not up to you. Alas, the price of such a "person", who, having lived with a person for 10 years, cannot be elementarily friendly, explain himself - tse disgusting! So it's not your fault!!! Why fight with our people, good people? Stinks walk, throw, rob materially, irritate, richly water someone with ford, do not mate with children, turn around in the form of alimony - and we weep for them and weep as weep, we just imagine in pain. PRO WHO??? We just cannot estimate them realistically, depending on the price. And the price of їkhnya is a sin, that and that lamania. Olena, let's not laugh, let's be happy, let's go on our way and see you. Won't hurt you more, don't take away more of this ability, you won't let it! Mine is an hour, and it was like a squeak at the hands of the hands, in the flow of krіz fingers. And that hour will come, if you say, "Lord, such to you for everything!" I already said.
Dana, vic: 45 / 10.06.2012
Olena, zvichano, so summarily to read your cry of the soul. What can you say? Read other stories, there you will indulge in pain, blessings and a vitally important camp, you will understand that your story is not yet the best. Don't look at the number of words! Just think, take a look at your own problems and look at other people. Hundreds of fates have come before us, and after that we have come so close. You have a good person - and what? And how did you live before the new one? Aje, you were comfortable with yourself, sing-song? Guess, what did you think about, what did you think about it, for a month, every day, how did you shoot it? Thought... What? You were the right Olena, but what has changed now? Vin did not want to explain - what? Svіt vіd tsgogo spread? Tomorrow end of the world? Hi! You are alive and well, there was no light wedge on him. Tse look sideways! So, it hurts more and cover, so, the miraculous moments of a sleeping life are guessing - and what? The axis of the stench guessed, and Vi їm on the contrary, once guess YAK vin pishov. She was a person in life, gave happiness, joy, kindness - well, say thank you to you! And the axis gave way to go its own way and how you can overcome the image, aggression, bad luck, what God does, then you learned how to do it! Chi tse is not a merit! I'm even more lucky that you don't have any new children! Why would vіn їх learn, like bi vіn mіg їх writhe?
I’ll look at the axis, if there’s a wave of flurry when I’m separated from a person (and we’ve been with a girl without three months for 25 years), I’m starting to think who’s hotter at once, lower me. Go to the hospice, just go in once and bring a pack of diapers - it’s not fair, it’s not fair, the injustice of the human world (God has others), but it’s scary if children or young people and women marvel at you with the look of a star, but age the stench could live and live ... Is it even more sore? Go there, de bіl and suffering are strong, to help anyone who wants to do it, I’ll just take part, in a kind word, with a look of a child up to his hand. І axis then you see that your problems are a rubbish before Eternity. Really, you were more fortunate that you, in such a young and beautiful country, drank and realized that that close person, as you thought, appeared to be not at home, with whom you wanted to end your days. Try to help someone, help someone, feel worse, lower you - there are no kintsivok, deadly sickness, disability, senile weakness ... and so on. Having stumbled with this pain, You will understand that even more of what we think is important, really, it is not enough. Tremite and give someone joy, and then you will feel relieved and clothes will come.
Irina, vic: 45 / 10.06.2012
Olena!
Upevnena, there is only one reason - ІNSHA WOMAN! And there is simply nothing to say, nothing to say to that. R_k to that my cholov_k tezh went out of court, laughed out of guilt. Vin boo is happy. A month later, I became friends with others. And it wasn’t so quiet 11 years of sleeping life, just like you. True, I have lost my son disabled in my arms. Batko doesn’t speak to each other. Win is happy! And someone else's dashing you do not need. You, maybe, for the second time, the rocks here read a lot of similar stories. I want to tell you step forward - it’s good that you are going alone and free. You can forget. Write here a lot of good words for you, pіdtremayut and you will forget. And those who have lost children in their arms, remember all life. Yes, it’s understandable, like a call of blood. My son is not to beat the father, but to make a lot of speeches just like that, as if he had broken his father. The mimicry slander is a strong humiliation of the process of renewal, especially as a child repeats those that are not appropriate in a person. You will start a new life from a clean slate. And the memory is helpful in the morning when the moment is not received.
Learn to learn dihati without anything - it’s the main task for you at once. Tremaytes shoshili! I also recommend the book DIVCHINKA I DESERT. The author is a psychologist who has experienced separation. After that, as I spent on the whole site, I realized that it became easier for us millions of such people. Let it go and you will feel better seeing what is in order. Not everything should be written specifically for you, but read your story and cry together with you thousands of people. Skin grief has its own and it is known that it hurts more strongly, less for others. But those that we call grief are not grief. We are alive, we must be alive, but the person of a human being, who needs hyperopia and is ready to gradually fade, you simply don’t need it!
Moscowlife, vic: 35 / 11.06.2012
Olenka! Understand, all your supplies are nowhere ... Most often, such supplies are only available from your BM. That th is not required for you. First, perhaps, what is necessary for you at once - you need to go to the psycho-surgeon - take care, it is possible, you can help, for that already rich hour, second fate. And all the same, we will try to rise. You are less than 32 years old. Life is just beginning, you still have no children. Otzhe, everything in front. And God just saw you in the face, in which you stumbled on your BM. Happy vіn chi nі - what we don't know about you in any way. And the axis of those that you need to read without a new life is happy, it’s important. And you will have everything: a lady, a man, and children... And you need to help yourself. What work??? More than an hour has passed a lot - try not to overdo anything ... And now? Let go of yogo, vin pishov, yogo is dumb ... Vin does not want to explain why? Possibly a lot of reasons. But the fact becomes a fact - win pishov ... and you can not continue to live. І pratsyuvati at once it is necessary less on yourself. Everything that does not fight, everything fights on the best.
At once, one rich food will open for you, and you need to open your eyes and look at all sides. And try to pamper other people ... so, so ... It's time, girl, shkoda time ... Your hour ... Well, it’s important for you to know why you’ve grown wine, but it doesn’t matter anymore ... Golovne - you necessary. live. Everything will pass, believe me, that everyone will pass ... It seems that you are a woman, as if you put a man behind the door, with which you lived for years and years, for you all - 32 years. If I found out about this new mess, I wanted to die, and I died in the eyes of my two daughters ... The stench almost betrayed me ... (they betrayed me the love of my girls). I climbed and climbed on the knees. I have a lot of fates, but everything will be in you, everything will still be ... New teeth, new kohannya, and wonderful children. Ver, as I lived, as a rich woman from this site, you can, but everything is in your hands. I pray you to be calm, I pray and I want you to just believe ... God has his own plans for you - and everything will be fine for you ... Happiness to you, fight - and you will see everything ...
Olga, vic: 52 / 11.06.2012
Hello Olena!
Our situations are somewhat similar to yours - I didn’t even know why I wanted to know.
Now, if I know, I'm much more important, lower! (I can’t describe my camp, everything is clear here ...).
I remember, as I asked, it’s not enough good to talk to me - now I’m already at a loss about tse humiliation! It was necessary to just correct yoga: "Don't want it? Don't need it!" - I don’t care a little more and don’t slaughter the yard.
My pleasure to you - do not humble yourself in front of him, do not joke with him the opportunity to talk, it’s more like that, I ignore you and learn to laugh. Save your water!
Rimma, vic: 29 / 11.06.2012
Olena, you are amazed that through the second time you still remember the person that suffers. I think, for an hour, necessary for a complete rehabilitation, to lie down at the level of our prettiness to the halves, that they left us. You can show, my man, so very sharply, without saying goodbye, having telephoned as if in the evening of an old young kohanka, that everything is over after the 23.5th of the night. So the axis was especially needed for the total rejoicing of mayzhe 4 years and more than two years of the given antidepressant. Nina already passed over 5 years. I’ll guess about a person calmly, like about a dream in a distant dream. Everyday emotions - neither good nor negative. I wanted to go through different stages - hatred, contempt ... Were the first few years, if there were not 2 hvilin without thoughts about the new one, and a day without tears! Everything gradually rose up, sank in. The rest of the second time I consider myself overjoyedly happy, like a distant child, for the sake of my skin day - I have new happy days and without a man, new thoughts - I learned to enjoy a happy life, richly re-evaluated, changed a lot of sleep accept people. You will learn to appreciate the skin of your day, you will all come. Be patient.
Rita, vic: 49 / 11.06.2012
Sob more forget the people, I forgot my speeches, I guessed about her, I saw my photographs, I burned my mouth ... And then I began to practice over tim, to reconcile with cym. I've been trying to keep my head busy, I've been trying to think about it and work hard. On this site you can find a lot of brown materials for you in your situation. It also helps to read similar stories and understand that here people are experiencing the same ...
Kostyantyn, vic: 25 / 11.06.2012
Olena, hello! I also want to support you...
First, what I want to say - those who officially parted - it’s good, even if it’s right to say - “better than a zhahlivy kіnets, lower zhah without kintsya.” So, not the best result for a dream, that final of stosunkivs - but if you screw up, then you will ... Go on, it’s a big speck of fat after the second fate of ignorance that empty hopes ...
I’ll kindly understand you, let me have everything else, but for a long time it wasn’t clear why I, why putting a lot of strength behind our watch is unrealistic, kohannya, turboti, hour, pennies, zreshtoyu ... - raptom ... they threw it (now, by the way, sensibly - they didn’t throw it, but they let it in). I can say that the main її motive is not explained by the elementary rubbish - I don’t know why, but for other people it’s easier to fix it easier, then we’ll talk about it later ... For example, I didn’t say anything - it means I’m not guilty, it means I didn’t have anything. .. Another reason - I think, is that she herself didn’t understand until the end, what she was ruining, what to do right, if she would step over, then, how to step over a loving person, a better person. It is easy to explain those that you yourself do not control and do not understand well. Well, the third reason is that while people don’t think about it, we’ll be more able to think about it and turn the situation in the future in a future direction - it’s not behind the plan, it’s necessary to get it quickly - you need to take the “reserve airfield” at your own readiness, and be ready and a new life is nabridne ...
Now, about the motives for your man’s exit - I think you were correctly written - it doesn’t sound trite - your woman (otherwise women, here to lie down, it’s just “love” came on, or you wanted to change it and win good “walk”). So already ruled deyak people (I still believe that such primitivism of the authorities is not rich enough) - joke to yourself at other people's lizhkakh. Life is an important thing, and if there is no spiritual spiritual thread in the middle, then it’s easier for your complexes to call someone else (the one who is closer) in all failures and “start life from a clean slate.” Well, well, now, from a pure place, such a person should not go into anyone ... Ale, it’s true, it’s not important anymore - this life, this way, this pardon, this kayattya - and then Skoda, like so mediocrely ruining your immortal soul ...).
I want to emphasize your respect for 2 points, they already wrote about yaki V.
First - you need a psychotherapist and, perhaps, for yoga recommendation of antidepressant and the hormonal background of vіdnovlyuvav). Fahіvets dopomozhe shvidshe and with less money to come to you and turn from self-digging and re-experiencing the past into reality.
To a friend - you have that century, if you don’t have time for yourself. For one child, it’s all right, but the family is happy, in my opinion, if a skin baby has adopted one brother or sister - and then it’s more foldable to contribute ... varto tighten up with the creation of a new family, take an hour to start slowly getting ready for this internal. Razumіyu, yak smoothly - but just REQUIRED.
You feed, if a new life will come ... Allow me to sleep, but what do you put in your understanding? New yaskravі podії, novі stosunki? Everything will be the continuation of the "old" life, even if we have only one. For more nourishment, we can open up for you at a new spiritual stage. Do you believe? Do you regularly see the Church? Do you pray often? Yakshcho nі - at once it's the hour for such changes!
The Lord will always support and give strength, you just don’t need to turn around in New, you need to accept Yogo’s love, that’s all that Vin gives - s vdyachnistyu. The axis of tsiom at once is your main task!
I found out about the details of all the history that ruined my family, stretching out for three years - that one at a time spit out. History is not a garna ... but it doesn’t hurt anymore. You know, God sends everyone a test of strength - the axis is me, like you, sparing your plan! Yakby, I also recognized EVERYTHING, it’s possible, just not having seen the bi, I think that I still had a lot of faith in people, even if I didn’t have enough preparations to forgive SO ... became more sensible. I’m learning, as if I’m learning from time to time and you, humility, sorry, right love, forgiveness, kindness, sympathy ... that’s a lot of something. I’ve been gaining everything so that reality doesn’t tritely finish off my Suvor, so that I don’t become a victim of other people’s addictions and vchinkiv, so that I don’t waste the rest of the building TRUST, without any chance on a new kohannya, I’m ... Knowing the guilt, come at an hour , and do not lie to us, if ...
You write that a lot of people are happy ... It’s like that (I doubt it, but I’ll take your word for it) - it’s good. If there are no images, You will understand. I want most of all at once, so that everything goes well with the big squad, I don’t want a boomerang for me for her (I want wine already turned before her so that it’s not enough to give up). I really want, schob people, with which I was 10 years old, Bula was just happy ... Why? To the one who vibachiv ...
You can stop "bіgati on the stake" be-like mitі - povirte. The situation is already in the past, now it won’t exist anywhere, we’ll close it like it’s at your head. I’m going to let you go and call the time has come to wake up - and you’ll try hard, that with God’s help - everything will be seen! Virt in yourself and start LIVING YOUR LIVES - You don’t show how wonderful it is. They took away a rotten man from you - but they told you, they gave it to YOURSELF - do not waste time for no time, you won’t turn around ...
All the best to you, stay calm and don't be embarrassed. "The darkest hour - wait before the Svitanka"!
Oleksiy, vic: 27 / 11.06.2012
Olenka, go down to the ground. Strip everything to the side. Aje people don’t change just like that, or else they rarely change. Not vipadkovo the rest of your sleepy life in others. I'm more impressed, lower by 100% - the new one showed up another. I do not vipadkovo drink wines, if you were at the vіdryadzhenni. Just don't want to be true. A lot of people, if they go, they shift all the blame to the women - and that’s the same. And your virishiv should be blamed in a different way - away, that you didn’t start up and didn’t wake up in your life, so it’s easier to go. You, at your heart, stop driving in the new one, you need to live your life. Stop chekat vіdpovidі vіd nyogo - tse just marnuvannya hour. Vіdpovіd zrozumіla - in a new іnsha. I broadly encourage you to be aware and start living your life again.
Ninelya, vic: 28 / 11.06.2012
Mila Olena, hello. After reading your story, I really wanted to support you. I’ve been reading the site for 8 months already, but I’ve been writing before, so I’ve left my person without any lads. Truthfully, we were friendly, but we were stunned for 6 years. I need to vrahuvati, scho vіn buv elder for me (menі 29, yomu 47). If we got to know each other, we were the first serious stoks, honing me with turbo, love, respect. FOR 6 years I fell in love with Yogo with all my soul. If I figured out that I don’t want to write, I don’t want a child either (because I’m a great mind at once), I tried to speak with him on this topic, I figured out that she won’t change ... but I’m not separated from her for my own will could. I just didn't show how I could live even one day without something. If we have arrived (we have worked at a different place), we have contacted for additional calls and SMS .... Well, vzagali, I'm not talking about it at once. I would like to tell you that they left me like that, without explanation ... just starting to ignore my calls, without explaining ANYTHING, without picking up the phone, dropping my calls, seeing on skype ... We didn’t bark at all, I’m flamboyant, but I’m still calm and m 'yak. 2 days before I couldn’t get it, what’s going on… Let’s go later… I’m sorry… if I still picked up the phone in a month and didn’t have such a fool that I just didn’t know the words, what I’m saying… At that moment I figured out what ... I don’t know, but in the middle of me it so showed that it was over, so for all 6 years there was nothing like it ... Yakby we got together - it’s better, and so, without having got it, you can’t and reconcile.
Olena, what can I say ... I'm still suffering from food FOR WHAT? But more and more often I come to Visnovka, not for what, but for what! For a new life. Reading this site, I realized that for all my life and a small part I didn’t know, it’s showing up. I don’t care for any evil, I want a happy wine, for that I have a few wines for a lesser man, for me a man is not a bad man. I won’t tell anyone about anything nasty, I just don’t have the right to… This way, I can go through my way, Olena… Let's try to live happily... and I'll try... Just understand what it means SO necessary, SO it will be more correct. God has his plans for our skin. Just trust the One Who will never deprive you.
Since it was so pleasing to God, I was only left to calm down. I gave life away. The first hour, how could it be for everyone - it was just physically unbearable ... I couldn’t help but eat, sleep ... Thank you, that it’s a robot, de charge people to wake up, and Thank God that your friends are true, they didn’t deprive you, they cried at once me, laughed at me at once... I started to go to church... Now I’m going to go there... I pray... I ask for humility... I marvel at Christian Orthodox films, I ask for strength to live far, live well! For someone who didn’t get embittered, who lost herself in such a cheerful, kind, clean, chuny girl, don’t be surprised at those who are in me 30! And I think it's more than just the cob ...
I wish you the best dressing, the strength of your soul to survive this unacceptability (the unacceptability itself, believe me, no more).
tanushavelcom, vic: 29 / 11.06.2012
Olena, hello! Think about it, perhaps, how great is God’s turmoil about you - what a person entrusted you, how I didn’t respect you, how I didn’t manage to just talk to you ?!
Anna, vic: 21 / 11.06.2012
Hello Olenko! The second fate of innocence - it’s too rich, and a person, not allowing orderliness, conscience, vidpovidalnosti, not becoming bi give such a cake to a woman’s wife, and then more than that, having lived 10 years. Vіn having shown your rightfulness and not your torments. I think the reason was already named exactly and in my opinion, even better, if you don’t know the details of that detail, they would beat your soul. Oh, how I wanted to take my time honestly and openly, but my big man didn’t care for the need to be arrogant (we lived 23 years together). You know, at once, two years after separation, I’m really glad that I didn’t know all the “loves” of a big man, I didn’t know the details. Adzhe navit tі vіdlunnya, yakі okrіm my will dіyshli before me, oppose cynicism and vileness. I thank God that you have been spared. Even better, having correctly written about Oleksiy. Don't check the explanation and don't get hung up on what.
Olenka, your big man didn’t turn on you, like you write, but let him in, let him know himself. You are so young, you will have an obov'azkovo help your family, a person who loves, appreciates you, children - your little world, help you be happy. If you will, do not hesitate. I, in the sight of my soul, in the sight of a wide heart, I thank you. Let the Lord bless you and heal your spiritual life, everything will be fine with you, otherwise you can’t be, goofy!
Valentine, vic: 43 / 11.06.2012
Mila Lenochka, my namesake! Even better than your mind, I myself have been experiencing the happiness of the dearest people for me for 10 months already. I want to tell you that everything is passing, that you are feeling and the wound, for good luck, is slowly tightening up. It’s already scary to think that you wanted to end your life through a health resort and deprive your blood alone in the whole world. Drive such thoughts away! Already I want to live for the sake of all the light! Now to go out to live for the coins - I won an inexpensive ticket to Turkey, find my dream dream and I will water the sea, put my thoughts in order, no longer allow yourself to humble yourself in front of a worthless zradnik. Believe me, Lenochko, the hour is all rejoicing. People waste their children - and after such tragedies they continue to live, and here a little man is out of rottenness - let it go! Trust me, everything will be fine. Golovnya - with goodness to blame for testing, to blame your lessons. Live your life, pamper yourself, calm down. At the same time, a wonderful hour has come for you - you are free and on the verge of something new, but for the brand - you are free!
Leila, vic: 34 / 11.06.2012
Hello Leno.
Good for the one who laughs without nasledkiv. About your man, I wouldn’t be sure to say that he has everything in chocolate, swedish, in some other way. And those who speak, do not explain the reason for the exit - so to speak, nothing! I should not be surprised at that. They have two options for seeing: call the squad from all the sins, throwing a hat on them, or "call the English", without saying goodbye. And the third option, if a person goes with him like a human being, but only rarely. The first two options are classics.
Olena, you re-read your prohannya and honestly, do not grimace your soul in front of you, tell me, about whom are you crying, about whom are you crying? 1.5 fates of unfortunate worry about a dribbling peasant, what is digging into other people's speeches, what is it from someone else's refrigerator? Krіm feels like giddiness and nothing in his soul calls out his such neohaynistyu. You obov'yazkovo treba to a good psychotherapist і obov'yazkovo pave the way to the temple. You will need a good message, father, patristic literature. Open the site "Peradannya" and find there the book of Archimandrite John Selyankin "Leaves to Spiritual Children". Read carefully and you will know all the information on your request. Todi big on a stake will end, and light in the end of the tunnel will fall. Such an hour is given to us for spiritual growth. From і let's grow up, it brings to the treasury more good things.
Lady Oh, vic: 55 / 12.06.2012
Dear Olenka! Do not hesitate, everything is over. I become the first of the rest, and the rest of the first. Tse law. But to become the first, you need to go forward, and not be dumb on the job. It's important, but make up your mind.
And just a bunch of summaries for you, for everyone who was thrown, without explaining the reasons ...
As if you understand that you have spent me.
As if you were going to be self-sufficient,
Ou vі snі pokachivshi those, like I'm crying,
І raptom zrozumіesh, yakim ty buv zhorstokim.
You will understand who you have taken in,
Crazy mind that look, immeasurably sumny.
Bachish, kim ti buv, and kim ti becoming,
The hero of the novel is stylish and cheeky,
And I wanted three heat.
I wanted only buti instructions.
But all the same, I once understood,
What did your eyes look like at the youngest disgusting.
Well, not a moment - endure one,
You wanted to be in the first place,
And at the same time, it’s unfathomable to go to the bottom,
Vtrachayuchi all, with kim bov prick at once.
Your eyes are frowning at the spot
And in the thoughts of selfishness urvische,
You shaving someone else's kohannu kvitochki,
Never turn away the yagid without scourging,
You have spent your luck on me.
In fact, so i did not recognize me.
І axis once quietly you cry
With such tears, like me ...
Natasha, vic: 48 / 12.06.2012
Olena, at the same time you have a miraculous ability to turn around and attach yourself to God! This is the most important and most amazing gift, which you can make yourself!!! Do not waste such a capacity, to start regularly seeing the Church, to know the Lord, to show yourself the new and the present.
It’s easy to be happy in truth, only you need to believe in God and grow up with New! All the reshta that has been prepared for you, come into your life more often and be filled with HAPPINESS, LIGHT and RADISTIE.
Berginia, vic: 29 / 12.06.2012
Olenka! everything will pass, take a word, better than a movchka, like a pishov your cholovik. I wrote my story on the website 3 months ago. Mіy BM pіshov movchki, I didn't understand, put nutrition, wanted to know and... I knew, literally 10 hvilin to that, all the way up. I DIDN'T KNOW WHAT I HAVE TO ROCK. How sorry I am for confessing. Pishov and let go! All i dot. Somebody better not know anything. With God!
Olena, vic: 44 / 12.06.2012
Olena! Do not need shukati reasons for yogo "punch"! I’ve already ceased to be timid ... You know, we were 14 years old at once, if I didn’t check the sloping booths, I didn’t do it anymore and didn’t explain anything to me. Vin simply did not let me go home with the child, without explaining anything. NOTHING! After the style of life of a sleepy, majestic kohannya, the vaginess of that people of a child - I didn’t smell anything new ... And then I realized that she was alive there already, and moreover, she was already 2 rocky ...
So, dear Oleno, don’t need to tell a joke, don’t need to call yourself, SO people just don’t get along with us! Let the stink live your life, but we live our own. God is my judge! Good luck to you, strength is that patience !! I know that everything that does not fight is better! I already figured it out!!
Katerina, vic: 31 / 12.06.2012
Olena, you're getting the word right away. This is already a folding process. The way to the life of life is not seething with trojans; Ale still rush forward.
Until that moment, until you accept the VRYu tsyu situation not only with your heart, but with your mind, you will be able to think about it, and your thoughts will try to help you. But the moment will come when you will again accept all reality without beauty. And everything will change! Your own experiences will become your strength. Do not call yourself, but just try to listen to yourself! Stretch out your hand to help and trust. Do you remember how mother was truculent in childhood? Vaughn just stretched out her hand, and Vi spiraled on it - did the mother's hand become your continuation? Now you have grown up woman - vchitsya to help YOURSELF.
On your request “why won’t you?” you can only answer to the one that is good, but I’m not impressed here - what can. One thing is for sure: you can say, be true. Ale hiba tse Is it important to you now? Try to look at the past at the third individual, try to get stuck. What are you doing? A healthy woman is friendly, loves a man, wins all the bonds of the squad, and I don’t work with myself. I have no children. Why? Come out, the reason is not yours. No serious plans. More than that - I was insured against serious plans, not wanting children with my love. Tse - yoga SVIDOMІ vchinki. No change is given, the whole WILL. To that, fill in forever the power of "why" - it is impossible to know.
In 32 roki, this situation is right and wrong. And yakby at 55 get such a stupid blow?
I reiterate the thought of the bagats, who left out the comments, that there are “foxes follow” - it’s completely obvious that there is another woman. Є I BULA. And the man just standing on the crossroads of his share and thinking: he'll be out of kim. Vybіr zrobleniy - yomu y zhiti іz tsim vyborom. Do not think, Oleno, that in the life of a separated person you must always make up a parade of victory - no! It's just a prelude for a new round of problems. It's more like a mirage-freedom without goiter. You can be a newly-minted kohana for six months - the role will be different: either serious or not.
Why do you not believe in the best result of your experiences? Yake new life Do you check 1.5 rocky? Live life for a second! You are so young, You will catch up with EVERYTHING. Just understand clearly: the loss of a person, what a person, WORRY!
It is impossible for us to conduct an X-ray of the future, and it is within our power to analyze the axis of the past. The difference between a pardon and a folded fold lies in the fact that a pardon cannot be corrected only for one’s own will, and from difficulties it is possible to take away the dosvіd, that very own dosvіd. I gave life. I don’t spend sense less than the one who wants to be stubborn.
You have so much of everything, you have a lot of light. Just at the same time, you got lost and lied, that EVERYTHING was cut off, causing one person to leave. THIS IS NOT THAT!!! One person for a lesser life for the whole world - such a great and meaningful person was not given to us!
Try to bring yourself to the bottom, try to understand that life is uninterrupted smuga, it’s impossible to understand. Navіt khvilini prikrosti and rozpachu carry in their own obov'yazkovy sense - tse mi razumієmo after 40 years, if life - it's less to start. Try "loose hats" and "ring the light": from all your doubts, make plans for another life, then you will become inevitable, and you will be right with your right values. Read to choose for yourself from your particles. No one, krіm you, don't know - how tse robiti. I, I bless you, - stop vivchati yogo movchannya - don’t waste your time.
Olena, do you want to know how to get out of here? Hundreds. We all help one to one in the distance. We are mutually changing. We seem to be trying to learn with our faith quietly, who is still not twisting his own strength. Come, do not throw away the whole site - the result will be obov'yazkovo. All your sumnіvi burn, and heat is lost - tse i will be the same new life, on the yak you ochіkuєte, tse will be a new round of YOUR KOHANNYA.
Love cannot be called until the adoption of only one person. Kokhannya - tse essence and sens.
Sometimes, under the hour of confusion, I think: what is there, at the turn of 50.60 years? I read, read, read...
Rozuminnya come shvidko: There are all those who went away to pick up for life. That's enough for all ages. Fallow in the sight of quiet vchinkiv, which were created by us. All mi - choose your best works and pardons.
Have you understood, Oleno? When sumuvati ta sumuvati?
You still have no food: see who is so friendly? See yourself! Win pishov see yourself!
And in the meantime, for sure, it’s bewildered by a gloomy reason - it doesn’t bother me. Ale tse - yogo problems.
In faith, your “internal choices” have miraculous results.
Nina Vishnevska, vic: 42 / 13.06.2012
"Where do you feel the evidence? Why did you blame me at the rose? Yakby, I knew what the reason was, I could have rebuilt it."
Olena, love! It will be easier for you, really, just listen. I went through such a person's own sight 4 years ago, and in an hour I listened to her re-read millions of stories, thoughts of fahivtsiv and visnovkiv of people who taught people's lives. Everything is true, simply and unambiguously.
First of all, people should never go anywhere. The stench is not psychologically attached to anything. In 99.9 hundred years of fluctuations - the stink of going to the preparations of the ground, tobto to the next. Yours is not a culprit. In a different way, think, how did your rozmov look? What would your big man say in a moment? What is it that has healed you, wound your life and categorically thrown it for the sake of a new happy life, simultaneously knowing all 10 fates with you? What is wrong, boyaguz, weakling? What did you give? Curling Khobotov in front of Margarita: "Let me go, I love you"? Well, think about who is on the building and for what?
Otherwise, in another variant of the development of the rose - wine, becoming a lie more vaguely about "mismatch of interests", "you don’t understand me", "you don’t understand", "don't you borscht" and that other fool, like a woman, sound like a hope for inspiration and to begin to "correct", even if you do not need it. And youmu will need just bring a drink, for whatever price and bazhano without marijuana roses. To that, for a woman, a normal camp has become "everything is wise, but I can’t do anything," but for a man - on the other hand, even though it’s already virushiv with “reason,” then it’s dead. It’s true, for the “reason”, in such moments a person is smart enough to take a pull, but it’s less than fate in three, not earlier ...
So, axis, Lione, well, think about it ... now and to whom would such a rose be needed? One ineptitude. No one would do anything to anyone, word of honor. Pishov, more pishov until the next and in the next life. New robot, new car, new team. Classic! What can vin tell you? Tilki "You are reasonable, you yourself understand everything." And in my version, it was "you are strong, you run into it." Pishov and all. What's the point here, do you understand? Tse yoga cherry. Are you trying to dig into your motives and change your mind? So maybe it’s just shameful for you, say nothing to that, but you check everything. You need to blow yoga for weakness, let it go with God! Someone else's soul - darkness, to bring people, as if they were close. Vіn virіshiv, scho you are not close, let the other in the heart. Tse everything is a solution. Dali - I am left-handed, and you are right-handed. Zhorstoko. Ale, so be it. You don't need to dig at the Chomu. You are now free, and it is necessary to think about yourself and your future life. Second fate is not a term. I needed chotiri. Olena, you know, you can’t put a closet on those places where a closet is already worth it. Leave the mayor of the old shafi for a price and a calm conscience. I wish you good luck, for which there is a place.
Natali, vic: 36 / 13.06.2012
I want to speak with a wide heart to all those who are aware of my prohannya. I will re-read your opinions, your warm and kind words once a day, and it becomes easier for me.
You all make a ration: the time has come for me to start living my life. It’s just that I still can’t believe that my kohana people showed up as a blessing.
Olena, vic: 32 / 14.06.2012
Olena, hello!
I read your story - and I just take it! So consider how you describe those that have become me. All from the first to the last word. Nothing, we won’t give up, we’ll turn, we’ll laugh at our experiences, marveling at them from the heights of our new happy life!
So cheer up, my dear "friend in misfortune" ... Until the speech, tomorrow we will formally formalize the separation. God bless me, and you, the patience of that strength!
Nadia, vic: 30 / 21.11.2012
Front prohannya Step prohannya
You don’t know at all when you will be spared, and when a catastrophe will come. Either you may have a problem with the jokes of a kohana girl, or you can worry about those who went out, ripped the stosunki. The situation is worse if the girl throws it for no reason. What to work in such a situation?
As a whole, it’s normal in our hour to shut up with inseparable kokhanny. The axis of ty zustrіv vrodlivu maiden, having turned її respect, having won the heart. You have begun to stosunki. Everything went well. Zvichayno, for an hour the weldings were trapping, but who doesn’t stink into? It seemed that the stokanki are nagodzhenі and you can enjoy them. Prote blame such a day, if the girl throws it at you, before that, without explaining the reasons. Nayzhahlivishe here becomes not less than її vіdkhіd, and y vіdsutnіst possiblity virishiti problem.
What is the job of the situation, if the girl throws it for no reason? Turn your back on your own especially, as it is necessary to turn it. Oskіlki girl left Persha, tse can sponukati chitacha obov'yazkovo turn її. The deyak lads are trying to turn the girls out of this way, so that later, if the studs are renewed, leave them ourselves. Movlyav, not a maiden, but a lad pishov, tearing stosunki.
Why spend your time on those who turn the girl around, so you will leave after your own initiative? If you have nothing else to do, then spend your time on such a rose. Tse will also be a corny dosvid. However, understand that nothing, except for the time taken away and the spent hour, is no longer taken away. If you need information, as if they were separated from the girls, it’s better to read about it in other articles, lower the days of your youth.
At the first stage, it is necessary to accept for yourself that residual decision:
- “I love this girl. There’s a varta of that, I’ll correct the situation and restore a hundred feet with it. ”
- “I don’t like this girl. I was with her just chikavo that fun. But if she left, it means that there was a place for another beauty.
Here it is recommended to be honest with yourself, so that you do not deceive yourself in front of us. If you really want to turn the girl around, read on, how you want to. And if you really don’t need a girl, then relax and take away your satisfaction from freedom, which is rapt vinyl.
Before speech, often blame the situation, if the girls throw the lads out of their own initiative. But if the stench is running, that the lads do not try to turn, moreover, they continue to live and for the sake of new podia, then they fight even more. The girls themselves often say to the lads themselves: “Why don’t you turn me? You don’t kohaesh?" Now it's out, and not the lad, it's trying to renew the stosunki.
Z'yasuvati the reason for the separation
Yakshcho vyrishili the maiden, turn her back and see her head, on the back of the head, explain the reason for the separation. It’s easy to finish the milk, because the girl herself didn’t vomit. Prote such situations traplyayutsya often. The girl throws, without explaining the reasons.
Shchob, to get to the bottom of that reason, through the yak, she won to be separated. And if not, then all of yours try to make the stosunki look like marijuana. So that you are not timid, but the maiden will start wondering at those who have the reason for it, that prompted them to separate from you. Yakshko nі, then stribay skіlki you want and obіtsya be-scho, but її tse do not hit.
Find out the reason for the separation - your friend is in charge of the fact that I’ll first sign up for you, that you love the girl, that bazhaєsh її turn around. Oskіlki maiden did not explain the reason for rozrivu stosunkіv, happened to look at the widest options of what you see.
- Utrimati Bazhannya, be honored.
Oskіlki the first dosvіd become the biggest, a lot of lads continue to step on the same rake. The widest reason why girls throw their guards is those who try to be worthy, catch up, beat yourself up.
It is called "position from the bottom", if the girl becomes a goddess, for the sake of which she needs all the work, in order to save a hundred dollars from her. The lad squawk, as if to make himself known, as to be worthy, to please, as to reconcile, etc. In other words, put yourself in the position that you are guilty of all inaccuracies, and she (maiden) will do everything correctly, rather than wine , good.
As long as you ask for different things and other people's loves, they will help you even more. Win you not to love, to that you ask, and not good mothers! This is a sacrificial position, the lad is guilty of deserving on those that the girl was pleased with him, and not already good hands that heart.
Let's see the situation in a different way, if the lad thinks like this:
- “If you want to shake me around, then come and visit me.”
- “If I am like him, then you won’t be the one to spy on me.”
- "Because I'm їy tsіkaviy like specialty, then there's so much to get rid of me, without gifts, that mind."
You do not sacrifice yourself in order to lose someone, but rather respect yourself with good love, respect, honor and other privileges. As if the girl doesn’t give you anything, that’s the problem. You live peacefully on your own, and do not entrust anyone with you. The one who wants to, he will be deprived of his own will that bajannyam.
Girls throw lads, if you try to slander them, entice them, zatsikaviti, then give them a little. Obviously, it is fitting for girls that they run after them, keep an eye on them, try to tighten their respect. However, such lads already put themselves in the position of "lower for the girl." Today, it’s out for the fact that you’re throwing everything to yourself up to її nіg, and tomorrow it’s out of your mind that you’ve come up with the “ganchirka pidlogi”. He needs a person, a special person, a full-fledged person, and not a slave, who is prepared for everything for her sake.
Vіdnosini with a slave or "ganchirka" without a bar become tedious and unscrupulous. A girl of intelligence, that it is already easy to change the order from such a lad, but such girls have no drive, passion, intrigue. The lad is not special, as you can cross, say "nі", send to the chotiri side too thinly. The maiden begins to nudguvati entrusted from the “hairy tіnnya” - a lad, who is ready for everything to mess with.
To give respect to the girls to chirp and to cry for the lads, like rubbing their feet. These lads do not move, do not swear, and inspire nothing to shy away, to be worthy of the girls. The stench just vvazhayut themselves good love and stosunkiv. Quiet girls, as if they are unique, stench does not get in the way. And those girls, as if they themselves grow up with such lads, with the help of their own initiative, they will develop girls.
- Nudga, routine.
As long as you don’t stare at the old grandmothers, keep your stoks as cliques, rіznomanіtnymi, povni hostility. Another pardon for the lads is those who stink at no cost to turn into a routine that nudga. Today is similar to dozens of days before. It’s time to start picking up, the girl is naughty and it’s not hard to get caught up in other, lively, cheerful lads.
Vіdnosini are not guilty of being monotonous and routine. You are not yet a married couple. For the time being, you are not talking about the old one. And tse means that your stosunkas may have pods. You can visit a cafe, walk in the park, spend a romantic evening, etc. You can get in touch with friends and take a walk with them, which will also saturate you with new emotions and emotions.
The girl wants to live and gain new emotions. Monotonous stosunkas will never have such a thing. Yakshcho lad is categorically warned in order to work the days of cicavi and to fight the maiden with new attacks, then you will know another cavalier.
Here they can help such busyness, like suffocation, sports, sleepy walks, bring out the top of the list of problems. Your sleeping life can boil with different podias, which brought a good deal of radio and sum emotions. When tsimu not forget about vіdpochinok. In such days, you can get a little sloppy, marvel at the TV set at once and do nothing. However, the period of recovery is not to blame for those that have been active during the period.
- Vision of feelings.
An important pardon for the wealthy of “kind”, “kind” and “ideal” lads, those who stink are not emotional. Girls need emotions, joy, respect, encouragement and others. Obviously, it’s not necessary to cry from her at the same time for an hour when I watch the beloved series. Prote next to the girl hug, kiss, say the words of the kohannya thinly.
The lad can be more kind and dear. However, if you are afraid of girls getting stuck, you don’t kiss enough, you don’t kiss, you don’t talk about your partner, you don’t share emotions and you don’t allow girls to show them, then sometimes you start thinking about those who want to drink to a more emotional partner. By itself, a lad of indiscretion, it’s just that I’m not able to vibrate sincerely and emotionally with a girl, as I need.
Podbag
Like the girl left for no reason, next її z'yasuvati. If the girl is about to be scrived, then you will call out about the lad. In lonely moods, the growth is unsettled. Call to whom to change the welding chi deake cooling pochuttіv between a boy and a girl. Podsumok - vіdkhіd kohanoi, as if the lad did not feel the foolishness of that prohan.
As a kind of bi class, the lad is not buv, but you can flow into the new one. You can be a garnoy person, a filthy one like a love partner. You should straighten your jambs, so you don’t worry that they threw you. More than that, if it is possible to turn the girl around, if you happen to get your hands on your reasons, then she left you.
Everything went well - until the wines of raptovo did not sign without explanation. What's on the right? For that boy, Oleksandr Biryukov, writer and author of the project “Be a Woman. Become a man”.
If a person did not call back after the first resignation, then everything understood: it was not worthy. Ale buvay, scho behind already a dozen zustrіches and ty navіt faint, like you call the first, and the person rapt - once - and disappear. At the reminder, I advise you all the more likely not to go to the call, but you don’t forget to work with socialist organizations if you want to. You cheers. Will you separate? If so, then why not tell you about it?
Why wine sign?
You are right. It seems that the man and the truth no longer wants to talk to you. There can be reasons for this.
Perche: you pissed off the hell out of you. Well, why do you take your shots like that, and after a new one, it’s impossible to continue a hundred years. Tse mozhe buti is a serious image, or an important nonsense, podlіst, zhorstka that napolegly manipuluvannya, defiantly disrespectful to a person.
Chi, maybe, for the old memory, you got lost in the colossal, and then you went to a corporate party with a colleague? It is called a disease, and a normal person should not speak out. Now it’s unacceptable for you to learn to communicate with the health center, and you don’t care for the need to explain those who are already so understanding.
Friend's reason: you're not alone. Buvay, a person at once stuns from a kіlkom with girls. A womanizer wins or simply having ruled over the casting for the title of the most beautiful woman is not so important. It is important for those who didn’t win this competition, and don’t go to the link of wines, more into a new friend of yours. Abo third. Abo p'yata. And then all together. If so, rejoice that you are not in this place. More beautifully buti without stosunkіv zovsіm, nizh in stosunkah from a womanizer. Good, you ruined your life after the sixth birthday, and not after the sixth rock of a sleepy life, if you already have two children and that apartment is in the mortgage.
Why didn't you say?
Є th third reason, which calls out to women the most food. The reason for this is simple: wine is weak. Ale, not to the one who broke, but to the one who broke the tsemovki.
For the cob a small liknep. If you roughly subdivide people into categories, then there will be three: bats, wimps and middle peasants. Remain in the company of friends to behave like alpha males, but with a woman they transform into pied heels.
Vatazhok is like a good captain on a ship. Vіn determines the course of the vessel, viddaє rozprijazhennya that suvoro sludkuє for tim, schob you vikonuvaetsya exactly and hourly. If there is a wrong assignment from the team, the captain should ask for a change. And it is quiet, who is constantly merciful and overwhelmed, writes off wines on land at the nearest port.
Have vіdnosinah z іnshoy statyu vatazhok behave like that. You look at the woman like a helper, like you follow him, your man, listen to him and try to beat them. If you do not fit in the behavior of a companion, tell me about it and ask for a change in behavior. Such a person is not afraid that one’s respect for a woman is not worthy, that she will be fooled and start a scandal. You know well what is necessary for you, and do not feel sensible to follow the lead in others. And if the partner should be guided, or if you can’t change the style of the behavior, then the gang will separate from her, and I’ll know more accommodating. Viber at the new one, who want to chat with such a rich person.
Let's behave like a weakling anyway. Vіn concessions to the woman's respect, and that fear the wrath of the woman and not to superechit. And raptom won't get angry?! And raptom pide?! It’s better to be like this, lower than that! Ale every patience to come to the end. If such a person is wise enough that he has no more strength, he will simply know where he is on the path of the least support. Quietly and imperceptibly, walking behind you with "black lists" and sim cards, what to say.
And the woman was ruined by her guesses: “We chatted, everything was normal. I didn’t protect, I didn’t imitate, I didn’t manipulate, that vin doesn’t look like a womanizer. Navit navpaki - quiet, calm, homely. What happened?” Nothing happened. volіv quietly pissed off.
Why so?
Weakness of character and polygamy of a person is not your problem. Ale, if it weren’t for the cause, you have all the same reason to be swayed, as people are constantly learning after a lot of help on aphids completely, on your thought, calm. What are you doing wrong? What disturbs a person who enters without saying goodbye?
And if there are no good reasons why, then why do you attract more than weaklings and womanizers from your life? Why doesn’t the one who wants to say straight out say that yoga is not sovereign?
Weak people are attracted to women from matriarchal, authoritarian wives. The stench doesn't follow the person, the stink themselves are the people themselves. Understandably, such a batting is not needed: it has not yet been wielded at its own stove, its own style of power in rank battles. І s kim? Tim, whose task is to promote and create psychological comfort for the couple. No, another person is definitely not needed by this one. And the axis of the weakling themselves. I don’t need to praise the solution, and throw it on someone. Pour for the flow, that year. Well, sometimes beat the punishment pan. But nothing, you can pay for the comfort of safety. That is why weaklings are more willing to be attracted to matriarchal women.
With womanizers troch folded. Who cares what available women will add to them. Others seem to be under-torqued. Ale, I think, womanizers are attracted by women, because they themselves don’t know, they firmly didn’t write for themselves what they want. Aje, as a woman of clear understanding, who jokes a man, and not in a violent affair, then let me understand. A womanizer simply won’t get excited about something, even if you become a father of a family, don’t burn and don’t get stuck in your life.
For days, our HR (girl, before speech, mіtsna yak flint) scrambled, sho, having talked, naming us as candidates like human beings - but all the same, write a guide in person or a negative review about the company. The remaining droplet became a stinging commentary on the ex-candidate on the publication about the vacancy in VK, and the discussion about the "watchman's syndrome", which HR suffers, which flared up in the distance, turning into a mirkuvannya on the topic of "for such a penny, it's okay to work will."
Recruiters don't love anyone - that's a fact. For applicants, the stink itself is a specialization of universal evil, stress, widm, visceral impudence. The life of HR in this plan is also not good: 99% of executive resumes (among them, clinically ill, and actually receiving people) can’t please him either. As a result of the faults of the disturbances, they either did not confirm, or inspired.
Mayzha zavzhdi recruiter does not explain to vіdmovu. Ale, turn it over, it’s easy to guess the idea higher, lower explain to the candidate why you don’t get it. There are 3 reasons for this.
1. The price is subject to change
Otzhe, the applicant takes away the command and puts the question: “Tell me, why don’t I tell you?” Nutrition, zagalom, totally reasonable and primed, more so, professional HR, effectively, can give valuable recommendations on how to search for a job strategy or how to develop a professional development in general.
And if you give a real feedback call to our candidates (it doesn’t matter, usually in writing), then you might have to do more than that.
Not much arithmetic. From September to October 2018, we took 3163 tickets only for hh. Yakby mi stained if they wanted 15 quills per zvorotnyy zv'yazok skin, who clicked "send resume", then took 20 working tizhniv from the cob of rock. And it means that our HR has lost 2 working days. More times: 2 tyzhnі z 22. It's more than a summary of hh, without other channels, and it's less for the mind "no more than 15 quills per person", like at the reception in the clinic.
And yet, navіt yakscho, keruyuchis mirkuvannymi humanity, hiring one more person to consort with the victims of the injustice of life, it is unlikely to rob them of happiness. І on the HR-brand it can not be positively identified. About the price.
2. Zaperechennya, gniv, bargaining
It's not surprising, applicants, who will adequately accept the return call and take away the new melancholy ... do not require clarification. Such people may have a strong emotional intellect, that’s why we didn’t get along with them, for them to understand, wanting to be on equal terms. With this stink, you don’t take in the vichlivu vіdmova gostro.
Navpaki, candidates, if they actively oppose the explanation of the reasons for their opinion, sound not too good to understand the situation as a whole, and for them, it is a direct encroachment on self-esteem. There is no way to say “dark” for a return call, but to begin, like a book by Kubler-Ross, to demonstrate one of the stages of accepting the inevitable:
Restrictions:"So, we had such a great conversation, and we smiled when I told about my work skills in the team."
Anger:“You don’t understand anything in [accounting / logistics / plucking geese]! Negain call your kerіvnik, I'll swear! How can you behave with people like that, I have two things to enlighten!
Bargain:“Tse through those that I depended on that food? I'm just nervous, I'm reacting faster, let's try again. Do you need information about project management? I'm going to the course! I'm going to hit it hard!"
In a flash, such a dialogue begins with a lakayuche to make a dramatic breakup with a lad / maiden, if everything has already been left out, and the other side is not in a position to accept.
If I'm an unsatisfied idealist, I tried to explain to the applicants what the widow's name is due to. In most cases, people react to it either strimano negatively, or very negatively: they get embarrassed, start to fight. Adzhe need for the defender of self-esteem is one of the basic powers of the special person.
Let my friends HR-іv and recruiters talk about the same. Zagalom, such conversations - not only the road, but even more lucrative busyness, as if you brought some kind of HR to the handle for a long time.
3. At someone else's monastery, and so on
Really, there are no “good” and “bad” candidates. I see that for the majority of people I know that it is really suitable for the work place. So, de їхні the strong side will generate korisnіmut, and the weak will not be anything.
All companies are different, and they are as strong as we can be, but they can be needed in hundreds of other organizations. Ale explain to people without a systemic business report is important.
For example, at the guesser's side, the stunned man was whispering to the commercian's wife. The name of the settlement is called the manager for the work with clients. Ale mi, already on the level of the marvelous name, we laid a foundation, what is wrong here, how ever.
Traditionally, a spivrobitnik in this position is guilty of not loosening his grip until he sells everything that can only be sold, but be easy-going, swear by prepared scripts and listen to the kerivnik. And yet you can not care what to sell, more smut. 90% of companies have such a gravel for gold.
We have a person in the same position (carefully, the marshmallow will be infected) is guilty of loving people, be bold, generously believe in those who propagate the price. And we need to take care of children for instructions, we need to drink and exercising to pump our skills - just to those who in our particular type should bring more crust, zokrema and commercial.
What kind of call can we give to the ob'ektivnoy demanded market to the salesman, who is encouraged? “On the right not in you, on the right in me?”
How, after all, “split” HR to a return call
The interface of most sites of the type hh and superjob tightly cuts off your ability to overpower the robot seller after sending you instructions (it doesn’t matter why). And if you contact the recruiter for good reason (or you can know), then it’s really possible to take such a call as a whole.
First, it would be great to know the fact that you, such a miraculous and unique one, can be inspired. In a different way, recognize the fact that no one is to blame for the promotional stained glass on you for an hour. Thirdly, be a good tactician if you really need it.
If you send approximately the same message, then I predict a conversion rate of more than 50%. Before the speech, there is a chance to talk about the work of inspiration;)
“Natalia, good afternoon! Having corrected you on the cob of your resume, today you have taken away your opinion. Of course, Skoda, but to my understanding, what are your objective criteria, and who do you turn to for candidates.
Tim is not smaller, I have a prohannya: you were already surprised at my resume, and, as a professional, sing-song, you can say one or two moments, if there would be a varto boulo correct it. I will be more vdyachny for tse!
