Why robiti, how I want to part with the retinue. If the squad filed for separation, the squad said that they want to separate
Tell me about the type of welding. The axis is literally at the format dialog:
"I said...
Vaughn said...
I:...
Won:...
and etc. right up to the moment when she started talking about separation"Zagalom, I'm sitting on the couch with a donka, showing her cartoons on the phone. The squad lay in order, edited the photo on the phone. By the bath, in the machines, the whiteness was fading. It washed out and the machine chirped. She squeaked out, the squad tse chula, but didn’t come up with yoga. Approximately twenty minutes passed. As soon as I pishov at the toilet, I turned around and said rudely that the type of whiteness had been erased for a long time. But here I was not in the car on the right, but in the fact that I needed to go to the dredge the next day, and the squad just sat on the phone and did not give me respect before leaving. I got stuck. After that, as I told the squad about the whiteness, the mistress got up and went to rove it. Tim wiyshov smoke for an hour because pіzno bulo and it was necessary to put the donka to sleep already.
Turning around, yelling, that the squad pouted on me. She put the little girl to bed and gave a dialogue in raised tones, but not so loudly, to wake up the child. Dali I - tse I, w - squad.
- Why are you rude to me?
I'm not sane!
- You said so rudely about the typewriter?
I - I'm not rude, just saying that it was erased a long time ago! (I want to know that it’s rough three times)
F - Why can't you win yourself in a moment?
I - Well, I would say, hero!
- What do you all need to say? Can't you figure it out yourself?- Why so sumny? Why am I revisiting?
I - That nothing, why did you suddenly run into me without a trace?
- It's your own fault.
I am nothing of which I am not guilty. Forever, sometimes you cling to my words, sometimes to my disguise (so it was sometimes).
F - Well, you yourself are not happy!
I - Do not be astonished, do not marvel!
F - You are far from me! In short, come and go from work and let's part ways!In these weldings, we simply didn’t cheat one by one. Kozhen thinking scho vin maє raciyu! So my second day passed (movies!) Until I went to the rehab.
Thinking we can go and pass two days and get out, but it wasn’t there. To speak razluchaemosya and that's it! Dali spіlkuvannya mayzhe pinned on two tizhnі. To the one that all over again tried to find out about what I wrote more, but nothing came of it. I’m sure I’ll repeat myself in the light of the fact that they didn’t smell one alone! Two days have passed and it seems, having said, maybe we can move to the Batkiv. It will be easier for you to save pennies and it will be easier at home. But then I changed my mind. The fathers of unruliness will be delivered to the type. Like we'll live like this for the time being. I'm fine. The axis is still so splkuёmosya. Already richer, warmer. Ale, it’s more business splkuvannya (finance, donka, robot). Laughing like before. Ale, whatever! There are no mentions "about us" or "about our love" or "about our stosunki" or "about the separation" ... In my wake, at the same time, trochs are left over for more than a month ...
Quite often, family girls have problems. There are a lot of steam, some of them blame welding for some insignificant differences. However, if you go to the right, then the situation becomes more negative. Yakshcho, sho robiti and yak virishity so furnish until the opening of the love vodnosin.
Why should women be separated?
During this period, you can try to earn money and find all the reasons, through which the team made such a decision. It won’t be easy to do it, but there are a few opportunities, so they can improve the situation.
Plan diy, like making friends alive at once
If you make friends with one living space, then there are more chances for reconciliation. And here it’s easier to know the contact, rozpochat rozmovu, turn to yourself. The chances of a renewal of the vodnosin without intermediary fall due to the reasons for filing an application and the obligation of both parties.
How the woman made such a short defiantly, in order to show the people what they can spend, it is enough to come to a consensus with the drive of differences. However, as if the squad was laced up richly, it’s unlikely that you could get by with just women.
Once the information is received about those that the squad filed for separation, some people can be like this:
- rose to the heart. Awareness of the fact that this is falling apart will give both sides the opportunity to take a good position and know the way to resolve conflicts;
- usunennya for a deaky hour. It will take an hour for rich women to think about the situation that has developed, do not start the stream of z'yasuvannya stosunkiv pide to melancholy;
- change of behavior. If you don’t control the squad’s way of living a person (partying with friends, living with alcohol, it’s hard), change the sense of yoga in order for the woman to understand the seriousness of a person’s life in tests;
- gifts, respect, surprises. As the reason for the separation was the presence of respect from the side of the person, or the fading of feelings, you can try to show the squads the zatsіkavlenіnі, if you don’t want to spratsovuє;
- change of situation. You can take a permit and ask the squad for help, to help smooth the situation and defuse the situation;
- having shown turbot and zatsіkavlenostі;
- decisions about those who need to live well. It’s a wonderful decision in such ways to help people evaluate the role of a person’s life and understanding, how important it is for both.
After the explanation of the situation and the discussion of the reasons, they became a basis for praising the decision about the separation, the hour of children has come. In yakomu directly collapse, better than virishuvati vhodyachi z features of the bet.
Golovna - reconsider the squad, so everything can change and separation is not the right choice.
Plan diy, as if the squad went home
For example, the squad lives just like a person after they declare a separation, for whom there is a low margin and shortcomings. On the right, in what you can, as if you were still making friends, so give them an hour to realize the importance of this.
As soon as the squad left the house, she filed for separation, people dotsilno children in such a rank:
- to give a little more days to the fact that the first few negative emotions have subsided;
- try to enter into a dialogue with the squad. For whom it is not necessary to slander chi vimagati about zustrіch. Children need it softly, it’s possible, to call for help, to snuggle up;
- create a situation that will help him, so that the squad senses the position of a person;
- explain your negligence rozrivat shlyub that readiness shukati compromise;
- bring the seriousness of the nation to the world;
- create a situation that confirms the beginning of a new stage in the natives.
Yakscho є sens to give їy troch more than an hour. You don’t need to emboss on it, but smuggle, slur spluttering. Buvayut situations, if you do not fix anything.
In such a time, people are no longer able to take the position of a squad, that virishiti nutrition of the main character is as painless as possible.
How to turn the squad, what went to the next person?
One of the most convenient options is є. Such a disposition does not allow rozrakhovuvati on independence did not allow, or change the thoughts of the squad when necessary to separate.
We need to be aware of the situation and not make a fool of ourselves under a surge of emotions. Tse pide to the reproach of the future reconciliation, but play the opposite.
If it is necessary for a person to develop his own tactics of behavior, the shards of the skin will be unique.
Not a trace to allow deyaky pardons:
- aggressive behavior. Such a position will not bring a bad result, it is not a good idea to start spying hundred sons from the retinue to bring the presence of another person to your life and exit from the house;
- try to squeeze for pity. Ring in the attempts to turn on respect and take away a part of pity, people call out only hostility;
- ringing and drop it.
Hello dear readers! The support of one of the partners to raise a hundred for sure is a failure for another. As a rule, no one is ready to go to the door, as a rule, no one is ready. Let them flail, otherwise everything was not perfect, but welding - on the right, it’s perfect for skin sim's. Are the stars of her wine so bad?
Today we’ll talk about those who work, as if the squad wants to separate. Psychology let me do it for the sake of it, to help me get everything right, even if in some situations, a woman’s decision can bring only one more burden to both friends, but for others, it’s just less difficult. How not to ask for a pardon and understand to what category you lie.
Let's find out.
Give yourself an hour
Don't hurry up ahead of us. For an hour, open your eyes, you didn’t take away all the information from the squad about the reasons for your trouble, otherwise you have no food, don’t hurry to put them on, don’t turn to this dialogue. You rizikuєte robiti tse anew and anew, if you don’t wait at once.
Give yourself an hour for those who need to digest the information. Deyakі nutrition, yakі vykatimut you have tsey period, zvіdut, you'll be already not so tsіkavo, but on іnshі, it's possible, you can tell yourself. Whether there is a slight break in your mind, you both need a break.
A man who has not been going through an easy period for a long time. In the power of emotions, you risk becoming a fool. For example, you might want to take a child away just for the sake of annoying the women. Vzagali, such a bazhanni has nothing nasty, as if blaming other motives, the interests of children, and not those who have grown up with their short-sighted land.
Ask the squad or take a time-out yourself, so that the three of you later turn around to an important turn. I’ll start to overwhelm you a little, a couple of meals from the series: “Why did it happen like this? Why is it so with me and so else. Ask your partner about everything at the partner's office for a little more.
After a few days (the skin layer runs differently), you can adequately marvel at the situation and take everything for and against, you can clearly understand, because everything has already gone to the opening a long time ago.
A little experiment for them
Navіt yakscho you and immediately perekonі, scho do not want separation (otherwise, if you want yoga) and you can razmirkovuvat on this topic with a cold head, I can pronounce you even a cicavi experiment, which will allow you to misinterpret yourself. Take an arch paper and express all your emotions, describe what you think and feel, and read the lies that you have.
Evening is the most safe period. We have a lot of thoughts about the future day, let you get busy with different sounds and work, and in the evening turn to those that are the most important. For a few years, we try to change our minds about everything that has accumulated in our souls, and for that, emotions are experienced acutely. It is a logical thought to enter another plan.
In the evening you can say hello, that the dream will be ideal in all its manifestations, but even early in the morning you think that after ten years you still caught up one to one, and an hour, spending at once, not being happy.
You can know the values and other precautions for the light of psychology, as well as the ways of using them to correct a folding situation, you can know from the book Max Liss “Solving the life crisis. Separation, loss of work, death of loved ones... Let go!.
What are we going to do
An hour, which you victorious for reflections, was needed and retinues, as if you had an indulgence in separation.
Active women need to be told about those who hurt. I want to stench, so that a person, standing up to their words, is serious and violating the code word "separation", although I really don’t know what to think about something new, smut, so that a person, having tried to correct everything that is not worth living. It can be said that this is blackmail on the side of the squad that at one time is a way to turn respect.
The second category of women is long before they talk about separation. You don’t call your life hell, but the bad things that have accumulated, seriously torment the soul and “Separation” is the apogee, the boiling point, to which the woman has gone. When, at the door, displeasure fades away, you begin to marvel at those who see you, but, obviously, for whom an hour is needed.
At any time, know that you have left it, but in order to know it, it’s good, so that the dialogue is not based on emotions.
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It is traditionally respected that the situation, if a person wants to be separated, and the squad should not save their family, the widest. Prote, as the statistics show, in our country, more often than not, the women themselves act as initiators of the opening of the school. Why does the squad want to be separated? What is the chance to hide the hat, like a person against separation? How do psychologists behave? Let's figure it out together.
Separation as a way to solve all problems
Before the revolution, separation was a rare phenomenon. Tse was explained by calling not godly “eternal love” friendship, but rather by economical and practical marriages. It was almost impossible for a divorced woman to re-enter the country, and to know the source of income in order to secure oneself independently is practically impossible.
Most modern women will not require a person as a single source of support for the foundation, who can practically satisfy all their material needs themselves.
As soon as the squad is churning, that the school has become “a thunder in one gate”, and it happens to take on additional vanity at the sight of domestic turbot, and the person churns at her less than a housewife, then the decision to part ways is given to the community.
The mentality of a modern-day Russian man, on the vіdmіnu vіd zhіnochy, from the tsar's hours having recognized richly less changes. So that today you can save your full coat, it’s not enough to be a man only on paper. Ninishny shlyub can be an equal union of two special features, skin from which to contribute to your savings and development.
Why should the squads file for separation?
Rozіvannya slubu for zhіnki practi- cally zavzhdzhe arguzhe grievous crucible, including іz psihіchіchіchnogo look. The squad filed for separation? It means that she has a reason. In 41 cases of over 100, as a rule, they say “strength of character”, 13.5% of the squads are separated through the predilection of people for alcohol or drugs, and for other reasons.
"Not zіyshlis characters"
“We didn’t have characters” - the very reason is most often indicated by making friends, as if you want to break up a love union in your application. Pіd tsієyu catchphrase You can enjoy a rich variety of individual features - from the diversity of the rhythms of life to sexual absurdity. If a squad is to become a matir, and a person is not ready to have a child, write down the very same line.
The mess has passed, it has come again
A woman can sharpen her own new kohannya and being with a lawful love. Obviously, such situations are not boasted of as modern suspense and are considered immoral, but for the fact there is a misfortune.
From the side of the squad, the decision will separate from the now already hated person and share your share with the other person, looking more honest, lower taєmny love link on the side.
Love chauvin crashed about butt
A lot of current couples are not prepared for family life. Spriymaya shlyub prodovzhennya romantic vіdnosin, young squads and people often forget about the other bіk podruzhzha - getting ready, pranny, tidying up, mittya utensils and other things are not necessary to breathe speeches. Modern women are often not ready to dedicate a job to themselves - they allow their self-realization, the stars and the growth of love, that they fell apart.
If a woman is provided with all the clothes around the house plus the care of children, and the person does not take any other part, there is nothing marvelous in the fact that she wants to drink. This elementary bazhannya was dictated by two feelings - to my underestimation, and for an hour they simply don’t have the strength.
Nestacha gostrich vіdchuttіv
Nudga is not the most widespread reason for separation, but close to 5% of women ask themselves for the marriage of their guests, filing an application for a divorce. Even before the wedding, the squad lived an active life - it went up in price, went in for extreme sports, or could quickly go to another place for a kohanoi concert musical group, And with the slave everything went up to the “dim - robot” scheme, you will become tedious.
A misfortune of good feelings can appear in a woman who at first glance seems not smart to extremes - adrenaline in a skin person is vibrated in different situations, you can also say about endorphins. Possibly, the squads don’t need a parachute streak and diving with sharks, but you won’t be able to get nice surprises, not a bunch of tickets or requests to your favorite cafe.
Cholovik - a tyrant chi people from fallow land
If a person becomes an alcoholic, a drug addict, or else he can get rid of all the food from the stagnation of physical and moral violence, the most important and most serious reason for separation. Alcoholic drug addiction, like tyranny from the side of a person, poses a threat to the health and life of the squad, so the separation is left for her in the most effective way to protect herself and her children.
What to work, to save your family?
Joden the psychologist will not give such a surprise, to help you save your family with a 100% guarantee. All deposited depending on the specifics of a particular situation. At a glance, as if the squad filed for separation, and if a person wants not to be separated, but to be reconciled, it is necessary for him to find out in the first place, why the reason for such a decision. Having identified the problem, you can already get used to it, to correct the situation.
Understand what is at the root of the problem
The woman rarely gives up for separation, but it’s unsatisfactory. Druzhini always try to convey to the person a thought about those who stink are not happy with the slave. Deyakі to speak about problems directly, ale є th tі, hto volіє subtly pull. If a person ignores such signals, the risk of separation increases.
Often, in order to understand what the root of the problem is, just talk. As if the retinue was tied up richly, it’s unlikely that you’d be able to explain why you want to tear your hat. Well, if you talk about separation, then stay ahead, for the help of such a woman, you try to turn a person’s respect to a problem, she tries to break it all at once, the dialogue will become the first step on the way to a good time.
Know your pardons
Modern people (and women as well) rarely remember their pardons. The society functions in such a rank that a person in the first place thinks about those on whom they shift the responsibility, so that they don’t take it on themselves. As if there is a problem, but making friends diligently ringing one of one, - you don’t see it, even if you love sayings.
Like a squad, it seems: “You don’t give me respect, I want to separate,” it’s not necessary for the guard to sharply say, “I’m tired, I’m busy, I want to separate.” If the squad is sorry for those that have been beaten up by a butt, the best solution is to bring butts from the middle, or to compete with the "good" squads (grandmother, who worked at the winery at the factory and p'yatoh, that she grew up, or I know, how to learn , and on the robot, the one on the bed).
Live in until the situation is corrected
If the reason, yak, shoved the squad into separation, you see, and the person knows that it’s in the same wine, it’s the very hour to get used to active calls in order to save the ship and correct the situation that has developed. What work? To be able to guess the “plan for the order” independently or ... turn around for help to the squad. The woman is unlikely to help in such a situation. Psychology gives the same reason:
It doesn't help anything
If the squad wants a negai separation, and the person from it is suitable, everything is simple. If a person is against, all options are tested, and if the squad filed an application for separation and attacking the divorce, then the best thing that a person can do is to separate without scandal. It’s not easy to accept a separation, for that you may need the help of a psychologist (he doesn’t have anything bad, even if he’s a fahivets, he’s a doctor, which helps to effectively deal with mental pain).
Don’t forcibly (through a path of threats, a moral chi of a physical vice) try to get rid of entrusting a squad from yourself (especially if it’s a child) - you won’t be happy in such a club anymore, and it’ll be foldable to call a couple. The end of the day is not the end of life, but just a new stage, and even try, you will become the first chance until a new happiness.
Like it was just earlier for people to live! Let there not be disposable razors and shirts that were not crumpled, but then with us women, you did not have everyday problems. Throw over the saddle, talk to the father, guard the bushes - that's all. Your skills. And it was like a bіdolakh of an offensive wound that it showed that the vile companion did not cut his nails on his feet - there was nowhere to go. The flower, so move it, was zirvana of innocence with a trembling hand, and without the fortune-telling flower in that hour, the road was alone. At the seamstress. I had to be patient, gritting my teeth and crossing my fingers behind my back, cooing: “Honey, I love you so much, let’s make friends? ..”
There were hours, and thank God that the stench has passed, more especially for me, for example, I would have had a chance to celebrate my century for embroidering bonnets with ruffles (otherwise it’s still called there).
Today, if the ominous primara of the bonnet no longer looms on the horizon, the columns of articles have significantly shrunk. The people of the acquaintance made a lot of new things for themselves.
For example what:
A woman may want sex.
A woman may want to have sex with a man, who is not to love.
A woman can have sex with a man, for whom she doesn’t want to have sex - only to the one who can’t have more fun this evening.
A woman can live as a man, whoever you don’t love and whoever you don’t want to have sex with - just like that. For as long as there is nothing else, no cries, there is nothing under the hand.
Tobto, scho zhіnki in the nutrition of sex even a little v_d_znyayutsya vіd cholіkovіv. And then, tsey minlivy, undesirable world became even more undesirable. De, for example, guarantees that a person, as if he were alive with you, how you believe, how you love and how you have already bought gifts before the New Rock - so from, de guarantee, that a person won’t take a big bag with a rapt and don’t know yours life? With the words “vibach, it didn’t work out ...” At that hour, as it happened with you, it went wrong, and you had already called the registry office - recognizing the year of their work ...
Pig, zvіsno, hto sperchaetsya. Tim is bigger, more, more, more, less, zovsim not zdatny to indulge his tormented soul in a bath with aromatic olives, looking at the dressings of three pairs of new shoes. From your article, this trick does not sound right. (If you want, maybe you’ll try the next time? And raptom ...)
Natomist you, cholovikiv, is another matter. The axis of the woman is sounding, they are left without any advance. Wondering at the person who dug in on the sofa, we don’t know at all what’s on our minds. Well, don't get naked in another day. Well, having begun to take lessons on gris on cymbals. Well, I showed up at a new call to climb on the stilts and tie a hank to the chandelier ... What, if anything, is on the mind of the new one - it’s important to guess. It is possible to know more. And it’s possible, you just don’t know what to please less - laying wines of satisfaction to our sleeping happiness.
Blukati in the darkness of the human psyche is busy without stupidity - your “logic” is so called, I especially guess the ball of the outside, over which the valerian whale worked hard, sniffing. So that a causal link can theoretically be established, but it’s necessary to sort out a million or two knots and cut a grandmother from the bottom of a chiffonier.
Therefore, it is all the same to predict the future of a person’s behavior, who walks out of yoga, nothing but the forecasts of weather forecasters. You can’t do without nasal hooks on the right.
And the axis of the woman, as a matter of fact with a greater straightforward warehouse of thought (you can call it “primitive”, be kind, it’s easier for you), first of all, it’s nasty to blame you, send forward signals ahead of time. Your task is less often remembered. And the smut - correctly decipher їх. (Because practice shows that there are more decoders for you.)
1. Won't argue with you
You decipher it like this: Vaughn nareshti recognized my Rozum's perevaga.
But really: How different is it, what is it, practically a stranger to me, people think about the political situation in Jakarta? It’s easier to say “uh-huh” and wait for yoga (dokorinno pardon, naivnoy and turbulent) thought.
2. WON ALLOW YOU TO WEAR YOUR LOVELY SHIRT
You decipher it like this: In people who live together for a long time, their tastes become similar.
And the truth is: The more often I make this cowboy nightmare at the client, the easier it will be for me to make the virishal cry.
3. WON'T PHONE YOU JUST FOR NO REASON
You decipher it like this: All the same in the evening we will work.
But it’s true: I’m starting step by step, step by step, to blow your breasts. Shoot, tomorrow I'll smear nipples with mustard ...
4. VONA DON'T WANT TO SHIT YOUR DAD
You decipher it like this: Honestly, I seem to be not in the grip of my relatives in the evenings.
And the truth is: It doesn’t matter what your mother likes me. Alemen, you know, it’s unhandy to marvel at the vіch at the same time. Come out, I won’t commend the results of my life.
5. VONA STOPPED BEAUTY MAKE-UP
You decipher it like this: We have long been at once - and we do not need to embellish ourselves one before one.
And it’s true: I’m trying to build noble toppings. Believe me, it’s not easy for me ... Well, look at me. More respectful... Is it true that you wonder how you can live without any wonder looking?
6. WON NAME YOU LYALA
You decipher it like this: It’s more low to be put before me.
And the truth is: Zhіnka is the first language teacher for a small person. That's why in our skin there is a need to coo over an object, which one suits it - it doesn't matter, it doesn't matter, a man or a new droplet. All these "cradles" and "dribnichki" are automatically chang- ing in our language. All the same, we are warmed by the “lower hormones” – endorphin and serotonin. And for those who live just like that, for a great life, day by day, one hundred and fifty lagidny variations in the name of Vanya, I can’t get neither enthusiasm nor linguistic fluctuations.
7. YOU ARE NOT INTERESTED IN YOUR ROBOT
You decipher it like this: And what's so wonderful about it? Well, we’re not going to get confused on futures, windage and handles of late delivery - it would be wonderful, yakby її in a right way, they started talking about my business.
And the truth is: If I'm zakokhana, I'm literally talking about everything that is connected with the object of my feelings. Yogo robot, yogo thought, yogo sіm'ya, yogo vaga in the presence of the people ... First handle tsya - come on, before you buy - maybe, you can flatten my eyes on the new beautiful depths of your daily life ... If I'm not zakokhana - I'll listen to the radio more often.
8. U LIJKU WON STARTING A GROUP SEX FANTASY
You decipher it like this: Won specially zbudzhuє me.
And the truth is: You might as well be, I'm telling you, trying to tell me, as if in principle you are close to the prospect that I can opine in the arms of another person.
9. YOU WON'T BE SURROUNDED WHEN YOU VIPADKOVO LOOK IN THE DRAWER OF THE 3rd BILIZN
You decipher it like this: Vaughn is modest, that rubbish is irritating.
And the truth is: First of all, I myself save dried tickets from shanuvalniks and illegally purchased condoms. In another way, whiteness is not about sex. This is already an intimate sphere, I don’t let anyone into the yak.
10. Won't say "I LOVE YOU"
You decipher it like this: Deyakі important speeches do not varto often move out loud.
And the truth is: You won’t believe it, but sometimes it’s important for us to lie.
11. WONA SHORT TACTILATE CONTACTS
You decipher it like this: ... but you don’t decipher it. You just don’t remember that you’ve begun to ring out that it’s become easier for you to hang around.
And the truth is: Tactile contact for women is important for everything else. (You, for example, you can call me with the rest of the words, but if you press me to your chest, stroke my head and slap me on my knees - I will feel satisfied and pacified.) Since I’m zakokhana, I’ve been grabbing your hands all the time, for legs and other parts of the body. And if I baiduzha to the people, then I try to make bodily contacts with her to the minimum.
12. WON OTHER BEGINNING YOU
You decipher it like this: Vaughn is afraid that I will hurt her.
But really: I really want to be free from a pure conscience. So, what would you like to use a ghost, to say “goodbye” and grunt the door ... So, and about what you cooed with the cashier, repeat the praise, if it’s all booze - break through the glazing of the cheeses with jam?!!